I get it—being in front of a camera can feel intimidating, especially on your wedding day when all eyes (and lenses) are on you. You want to look your best, but you also want to feel comfortable and natural. I hear you!
That’s exactly why I’m writing this blog—for all you brides and grooms who want stunning wedding photos without the awkwardness. The good news? Looking natural in your wedding photos isn’t about being a pro at posing—it’s about feeling relaxed, being in the moment, and letting me take care of the rest.
Leave the Technical Stuff to Me
Worried about bad weather? Too much sun? Rain? Don’t be! Whether it’s bright midday sun or an overcast sky, I know how to work with different lighting situations to make sure you look amazing. My job is to make the most of any conditions, so you don’t need to stress about a thing. Your job? Simply enjoy your day!
What I Recommend
1. Consider an Engagement Shoot
If you haven’t already, I highly recommend booking an engagement shoot with me. It’s a great way for us to meet, get to know each other, and ease any camera nerves before the big day. It also gives you a chance to see how I work, so when your wedding day arrives, you’ll already feel comfortable in front of the camera.
Not sure what to wear? No problem! I’ll send you a styling guide a week before your engagement session, so you’ll know exactly what outfits will look great on camera.
2. Don’t Worry if You Haven’t Done an Engagement Shoot
If an engagement shoot isn’t for you, don’t worry — I’ve got you covered! On your wedding day, I’ll guide you every step of the way with my tried-and-tested posing system.
The first 15 minutes might feel a little nerve-wracking (which is completely normal!), but after that, you’ll feel relaxed and confident. I’ll give you easy-to-follow directions, and before you know it, you’ll be moving naturally without even thinking about it.
3. Give Yourself Time for Couple Photos
I recommend setting aside at least 45 minutes for your couple portraits. This gives us time to capture those beautiful, intimate moments without feeling rushed. If you don’t have a wedding planner, don’t stress — I’ll help put together a schedule so your day runs smoothly. That way, you’ll have time for gorgeous photos and plenty of time to relax with your guests.
Practical Tips for Feeling Comfortable in Front of the Camera
Focus on Your Partner
Wedding photos aren’t about the camera — they’re about celebrating love! Instead of worrying about how you look, focus on your partner. Whisper something sweet (or funny!) to each other, hold hands, or simply soak in the moment together. Genuine emotions make for the most beautiful and natural photos, so let your love shine through.
How to Involve the Wedding Party
Your wedding party plays a big role in your day, and they can help make your photos even more fun and relaxed!
Candid Moments: I’ll capture fun, unscripted moments with your bridesmaids, groomsmen, and family — whether it’s a shared laugh, a toast, or a spontaneous group hug.
Natural Group Shots: I will ensure you get both formal and fun photos with your wedding party. I’ll guide you through traditional posed shots that showcase everyone looking their best, while also incorporating lively, engaging moments to capture the joy of the day.
Posing & Prompts: I will pose you and your wedding party in a way that ensures everyone looks their best. Whether it’s a timeless, formal photo or a fun, energetic shot, I’ll provide easy-to-follow directions so no one feels awkward in front of the camera.
Final Thoughts
At the end of the day, the best wedding photos are the ones where you’re simply being yourselves—laughing, chatting, and enjoying the moment. My job is to capture that in a way that feels effortless and natural for you.
So take a deep breath, trust the process, and most importantly — have fun! You’ve got this!
